For Our Daughters

Our middle girl turned 15 on Sunday. I can hardly believe it. Our oldest girl turns 20 in two weeks. In December, our youngest turns 14. This is for each one of them…

Slow down, slow down,
my Butterfly —
I know you want to soar
Your wings grow bolder
every day
and stronger than before…

Slow down, slow down,
my Butterfly–
the world’s not black and white
so let God’s wisdom
lead the way
and fuel your graceful flight

Slow down, slow down,
my Butterfly —
soak in God’s love… refill.
Don’t overthink
the simple things,
take time to just be still.

Slow down, slow down,
my Butterfly —
and let me hold your hand
for just a
little longer…
one day you’ll understand.

I know, I know,
my Butterfly —
God gave you wings to soar.
Keep growing bolder
every day
and stronger than before…

I know, I know
my Butterfly–
God’s got you in His sight
He’s wrapped you in
his wisdom and
ordained your graceful flight

I know, I know,
my Butterfly —
I need to just be still
and know that God is
guiding you,
wrapped in His perfect will.

I know, I know,
my Butterfly —
God holds you in His hand
and loves you even more than me?
One day I’ll understand.

But still, slow down,
my Butterfly,
I know you’re gonna soar.
‘Cause every day
you’re bolder,
braver,
stronger than before…

— Donna Earnhardt, August 2017

21 responses to “For Our Daughters”

  1. Lynn A. Davidson Avatar

    Donna, this is beautiful, sentimental, and sweet.
    I understand your feelings. My youngest daughter is being married in less than two weeks!

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      Thank you, friend. Married? Happy and sad —
      at the same time!! Hugs and more hugs!!

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  2. Kathleen Avatar

    Donna, so meaningful and from the heart. As a mom of a daughter who is about to turn 21 in a few months-I can definitely relate to your thoughts! 🙂

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      It’s amazing and heart-wrenching when the reality hits about
      how fast they grow up!!!

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      1. Kathleen Avatar

        So true!

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  3. Sherrie Avatar
    Sherrie

    You’re making this newly empty nester tear up. Lovely poem.

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      thank you, friend. Love you!

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  4. Jean Matthew Hall Avatar

    Reminds me of Nicole Nordeman’s song. You’ll need tissues. https://youtu.be/clcNB_EUao8

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      I just googled the lyrics to that song. And if the music matched the lyrics (or even comes close), I will not be able to watch it, especially if you say it will make me cry! lol!
      Seems like moms all across the world must have the same heart toward their children!

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  5. Damon Dean, SevenAcreSky Avatar

    Donna! How perfect a poem … and prayer… for daughters. So meaningful to me as my oldest turned 40 last week.
    This needs to be published somewhere.

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      Thank you, Damon! Your words are so encouraging to me! And for the record — you do NOT look old enough to have a 40 year old daughter. I’m 44.. .and I thought you were my age!

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  6. Laura Renegar Avatar

    Beautiful. Absolutely beautiful.

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      Thank you, my friend. Love you much!

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  7. sarahsbookreflections Avatar

    What a lovely post, Donna. Enjoy them as much and as often as you can. I keep thinking of them as still very young as they were when you came to visit Wilmington and New Bern.

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      Thank you, Sarah! I remember that trip very well. It was so much fun! We were talking about it just the other day!

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  8. lindamartinandersen Avatar

    Fabulous! I love the twist and turns going on. Life’s like that!

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      Thank you, Linda! I hope you are doing well!

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  9. Carol Federlin Baldwin Avatar

    This is lovely, Donna. I totally get it ALL! And it’s so hard (In fact impossible) to slow it all down. Sorry..but it doesn’t get easier. Can’t believe your oldest is 20!!

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    1. Donna Earnhardt Avatar

      Hi Carol! I can hardly believe it, either! It sure would be great if it got easier. *sigh*

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  10. Joan Y. Edwards Avatar
    Joan Y. Edwards

    Dear Donna,
    Thanks for writing and sharing your delightful poem.

    Never Give Up little butterfly!
    Joan

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    1. Donna Welch Earnhardt Avatar

      Thank you, Joan!

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